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7 Things To Know Before Starting a Relationship

Published by TITI NAIJA on March 2nd, 2020.

7 things to know before starting a relationship

True Love is sweet when shared with the right person, comitting to be with another person can be difficult as it takes a lot of dedication, focus, and work. Finding the right person to settle down with can be frustrating and even when you do find the right one, you’ll still have to channel all efforts to maintain your relationship.

These 7 important things that will be listed will serve as a guideline for you so pull up a chair and read on for more.

Acknowledge God in all thy ways

God is the creator of relationship, He designed it that for every man created, there’s a woman created as an “help meet”. Stay close to God as He will help you in your choice.

Increase your Knowledge Bank

It’s so funny how people go to school to acquire knowledge on a particular career of their choice and feel they’re mature to be in a relationship forgetting that relationship itself is a course one can take forever to learn. I remembered when I first read Gary Chapman’s “Five love languages”, I realized most of the issues I had in my previous relationship are things that might not even occur if I had knowledge on how relationship works. Aside from reading relationship books, reading itself helps to improve the mental well being, improves vocabularies, etc and also improves your “knowledge bank”.

You have to love yourself first

They say “like poles attract like poles” according to the law of magnetization, if you don’t love yourself, how do you expect the other person to love you, you don’t give what you don’t have, you give what you have, you also attract who you’re. If you don’t place this value on yourself mind you people will always bring your value down. So make sure you enjoy every moment of your life without bothering about “what some people think”.

Master your feelings

Mastering of one’s feelings is an art, feelings can be a big problem for us when not controlled, it can disturb our mental state but when you’re able to understand the difference between “infatuation” and “love” it will help when you meet someone for the first time as your mastering will help to kill the feelings of infatuation or lust.

Know what you want for yourself

If you have loved yourself duely, you wil definitely know the kind of person you want for yourself, often times we overlooked things that should have been the cause of our break up during the early days of conversation due to not being able to master the kind of feeling we have for that person. As someone who has mastered the feelings and loved yourself, you’ll be able to know the kind of personality you want as a partner.

Be ready to go out of your way to satisfy your partner

This might sound stupid but the moment you decide to go into a “godly” relationship be ready to do things sacrificially but apply caution to it.

Be ready to exercise a lot of patience

Patience they say is part of the ingredient to become someone’s husband. But they forgot that Men also do things sometimes that require a woman to exercise a lot of patience. A quick one, Women often behave like babies when they’re with someone they love but if the guy doesn’t bring himself to that level, it might lead to argument. Patience is very important as it is the key to every peaceful relationship.

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